I thought I’d start this off my talking a little bit about my background. My husband and I have been happily married for 9 years. I noticed how he always loved me sliding my finger into his ass while giving him oral, and how affectionately he’d respond when I’d playfully smack his ass. I never thought anything of it, until one day when he was desperately wanting a blowjob, and I got the naughty idea to bring my dildo into it.
I ordered him to close his eyes and began lubing up his tight little butt. I slid the dildo in very slowly and gently at first and when he realized it wouldn’t be my finger going into him, he opened his eyes, as if to pretend that he wasn’t sure this was right. But I shushed him lol, and slid it in anyway. He loved it. I’ve never seen him in such pure ecstasy before during oral. I did this a few more times to him, and we didn’t really talk about it openly, it was just sort of our little secret.
Then one day after sex, we were laying in bed chatting, and he asked me if I wanted to go a step further. I knew what he meant, but I wanted to hear him beg for it, so I played dumb and he finally admitted he wanted me to fuck him in the ass with a strapon, that he looked at pegging and strapon porn, and would I be willing to try it. So we did.
It was amazing, and I added the word ‘pegging’ to my vocabulary. For a woman, it’s such a hot role reversal to be the one penetrating and feeling that surge of sexual power. You just discover this dominant part of you, and having a willing partner is an awesome feeling. Now I peg him with my strapon regularly, and we both love it. I will call him when I’m on my way home from work and tell him to “assume the position,” and when I get home, he’s bent over waiting for me. He loves it, and so do I. When he’s been extra naughty, I’m extra rough on him. I tease him, sticking it slightly into him, then pulling out, and telling him to “make me hard” and he turns around and starts sucking on it.
Men…be open with your women, if you think she’s kinky. And women…trust me, nothing makes you feel so sexually in control of him when you’re pegging your husband’s ass with a strapon, and he’s bent over and vulnerable, waiting for you.